Winning with people

Management Moment

A boss has the title. A leader has the people. - Simon Sinek

All companies, no matter their size, must remember they are in the “people business.”

It’s one of the most complex challenges you will face in leadership. And it’s one you’ve got to conquer if you are going to succeed. Unfortunately, you don’t always get to choose those people. In fact, you might at times feel like the person who said, “Sometimes I wish I was an octopus so I can slap eight people at once.”

Since slapping people is out of the equation as a leader, we must reconcile the fact that as leaders we are in the people business. This is our greatest challenge and it is our greatest reward.

Here are a few reminders on how, as a leader, you can win with people.

You win by winning their hearts

Too often this is where many a leader drops the ball. This is a leadership principle I learned from John Maxwell almost 20 years ago. Maxwell said, “Always touch a person’s heart before you ask him for a hand.”

A good leader will invest relationally with his or her people before asking for their hand. It is when you have made this connection first that you open the door to other possibilities and opportunities. But first, win their heart.

 You win by investing in your people

When your people know that you are invested in them they will go to great lengths to perform. This investment is not just monetary, although it is included. Winning with your people happens as you empower and equip them to not only meet their expectations but to exceed them.

 “Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our self-fulfilling prophecy,” said Brian Tracy. “You win with your people when you raise their level of confidence and remind them of their potential and abilities on a regular basis.

You win with people by conceding the spotlight

I have said this many times and it is worth repeating here now. Expressions of servant leadership are found when you concede being in the spotlight by putting someone else in it. And this is how you win with people.

Billy Hornsby said, “It’s okay to let those you lead outshine you, for if they shine brightly enough, they reflect positively on you.”

You can only win with people as a leader on this level if you are secure enough to drop your ego and quit worrying about who gets the credit for what. You win with people when you celebrate your people and their successes.

 You win with people when you listen

You win with your people when you learn how to listen. Some of the best ideas in any organization will not flow out of the corner offices but into them.

As a leader, you must do as Howard Behar suggests in his book, “It’s Not About The Coffee,” and “put the time into listening, even to what’s not said...You’ll know what your customers want, you’ll know why the passion is missing from your organization, and you’ll learn solutions to problems that have been sitting there waiting to be picked.”

 Winning with people happens when you are more concerned with what they have to say than you are in what you have to say. Your leadership hinges at times on your ability to be quiet and listen.

 You win with people when you commit to developing leaders

Your success as a leader does not come when you gain more followers but when you develop more leaders. Simply put, multiplication is the math of leadership. You win with your people by multiplying the number of leaders in your organization.
 “A leader is best when people barely know he exists,” said Lao Tzu. “When his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: ‘we did it ourselves.’”

And this is the ultimate goal of your leadership and the definitive mark of winning with your people. It is as you raise them up as leaders and empower them, that you win.

 Your leadership rises and falls on your ability to win with people. Make it a priority and you will go far.

 ©2017 Doug Dickerson

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